It is Matthew’s birthday today and I am so lucky to have him as a husband. I didn’t know life could be this good, easy, and blissfully happy until he came into my life. I am so grateful for Matthew because of so many of his amazing attributes. Here are just some of the many.
Mature
When I saw Matthew for the first time I had no idea how young he was. Matthew looks older than he is which is good because most people don’t suspect that we have such an age gap. But most of the time even when someone looks older they don’t act older. Matthew surprised me from the very beginning because is much more mature than someone his age. I don’t even think of him as 6 years younger than me until we start talking about “when I started kindergarten, you were in 6th grade.”
Ambitious
Matthew is more ambitious than I have ever thought of being. When I went to school in Business I always stayed as far away from Entrepreneur classes. I never had the desire to take on the stress of owning my own business. But Matthew has this drive to be his own boss which scared me at first. But I see in him everyday how much drive and desire he has and even more the confidence that he can make it work. Those fears have slowly diminished as I realize, I also knows he has the determination and drive that so few of us possess.
Testimony
During our scripture reading and daily study together, I am always taken off guard by the insights and ample amount of knowledge he has of the gospel. When he talks about his mission it is very apparent what a faithful and diligent missionary he was. I am so grateful he is a worthy priesthood holder that can preside over our family.
Tender
I know guys don’t really love being referred to as tender but I can’t help it. That is just what Matthew is (along with very masculine too J) He is always considerate of mine and others feelings. He has helped me through a very hard time in my life of loosing my brother and I know it is hard for him to know what to say to me during these times but he always knows that I just need to be held. I know he tries to understand even though he might not have his own life experiences to refer back to. And is so good to just listen when I am wanting to talk and share feelings. He makes my trials easier to bare with him by my side.
Hard-Working
In every job that Matthew has he goes above and beyond the expectations. He not only does a job but he does a job right and thorough. His current employers noticed very quickly that Matthew superseded his duties. I think with this attribute , those that he works with and for gain so much more trust for his finished product and responsibilities.
Entertaining
I realize more and more every day how much Matthew likes to entertain people and especially me. He has such a good sense of humor that is contagious. He is always finding ways to make me smile and laugh. He often uses what I like to call “old man” jokes, the newest humorous YouTube video, or even his own personal dance performance while cleaning on Saturday mornings. Cleaning had never been so fun until doing it with Matthew!!!
Win Over
Matthew’s personality is so magnetic. I wasn’t concerned at all about introducing Matthew to family and friends when we first started dating. I know that the moment any of them met him they would love him as quickly as I loved him. He charms every woman, impresses every guy, and gains friends easily.
Matthew I love you so much and I am so glad that we will be husband and wife for time and eternity. Happy Birthday!!!